“There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.” Dr. Denis Waitley
Have you delayed living your vision because you are waiting for your finances, the economy or the job market to get better? Are you waiting for some expert or guru to write a book or facilitate a seminar that gives you a five step formula to make your vision a reality?
Born to fulfill your vision
You and I were born with an innate desire to fulfill our vision. But, many people fail to live out their vision because they sit on the sidelines of life refusing to participate. They encounter difficulties that they think is impossible to break through. They listen to others negative commentary. They give into a negative inner voice that tells them things will never work out.
One of my dreams a few years ago was to start a website encouraging individuals to realize and live out their God-designed vision. I dreamed about starting my website often. I read books and blogs on how to start a blog website. I studied others websites to see what they were doing. I accumulated tons of information on how to start a website, but I failed to start.
I found myself sitting on the sidelines instead of participating in the game. I always had an excuse to why I could not start a blog website. I was too busy. I was not technical savvy. I couldn’t find anyone to help. It cost too much. If there was an excuse I made it.
You will never live your vision at maximum capacity if you never get in the game. You can talk about what you know and how talented you are, but if you don’t participate in your vision, you will never know what you can do.
Get in the game
No great athlete ever became great by sitting on the sidelines. There are no great players in the Hall of Fame who sat on the bench for their entire career. There are no trophies or awards named for the best bench player. There are no highlight films focused on the players standing on the sidelines. If you want to achieve your dreams, you must get in the game.
Every day that God gives you is a brand new day, unlike any other day. It is a brand new opportunity to play your best game. So what if you miss the shot, fumble the ball or strike out? Do you quit after a failure or do you get back up and try again?
When failure happens it is your responsibility to dust yourself off, clean the wound, put a band aid on it and get back in the game. There are too many people who are counting on you to finish strong. And you cannot finish strong sitting on the sidelines.
Your vision wants to live through you. If you want to break free of the traps that will kill your vision, you must know what they are. After looking over my life and talking to others, I realized fifty-two traps that will kill your vision.
52 vision killers
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Procrastination
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Indecision
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Making excuses to why it can’t be done.
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Blaming others for your mistakes and errors.
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Selfishness
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Willing to quit at the first sign of obstacles or opposition.
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Lack of a vision to guide your life
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Neglecting to take advantage of new opportunities.
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Failure to define exactly what you want.
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Wishing instead of working towards your vision.
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Searching for short cuts to success.
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Failure to put plans in action.
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Worrying about what others might say or think.
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Compromising your values for temporary pleasures.
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Refusing to disconnect from negative and discouraging people.
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Waiting for the perfect situation.
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Allowing negative inner conversation to hold you hostage.
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Walking by sight and not by faith.
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Doubting your God-given skills and abilities.
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Refusing to learn new strategies and techniques.
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Attempting to do everything on your own.
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Multi-tasking instead of focusing.
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Paralysis of analysis
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Believing your own hype.
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Playing instead of preparing.
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Being an imitator.
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Leaving God out the equation.
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Living with a comfortable pain.
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Watching too much television.
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The fear of failure.
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Afraid of change.
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Unhealthy eating habits.
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Over extended on credit.
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Holding onto a past you cannot change.
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Greed.
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Waiting for someone to give you permission to live your dreams.
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Too much clutter.
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Unorganized.
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Consistently inconsistent.
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Trying to please people.
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Jealousy
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Trying to get different results with the same actions.
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Comparing yourself to someone else.
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Lack of exercise.
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Information overload.
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Stuck in a familiar routine.
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No accountability.
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Lack of preparation.
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All work and no play.
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Stagnation
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Talking too much and not listening.
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Wasting time playing on social media.
This is not an exhaustive list, but I have seen these fifty-two vision traps hinder my vision and the vision of others. My next several posts will focus on what it takes to escape each of these traps and live your vision at maximum capacity. Your world is waiting.
Question: What vision trap has kept you from living out your vision? Leave a comment below.
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Loren Pinilis says
#16 hits home with me. That and #30. These things have affected me in life in ways I wasn’t totally consciously aware of. It’s taken some time to get to the bottom of them.
Betty Draper says
That’s a keeper list…thanks. Every time I look to myself I lose vision. Today is my gleaming day, I am gathering resources to help the missionaries on home assignment. So many get trapped in many of this list.. I think we can use it as a spring board to help them. Thanks
Caleb Suko says
It’s amazing how lack of exercise and unhealthy eating habits can spill over into other areas of life. I have seen it happen in my life before and I noticed that when I have discipline in eating/exercising then it’s often easier for me to have more discipline in my work and in my spiritual life.